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The History of Sex Dolls
What is a Sex doll?
First and foremost a Sex Doll is a type of sex toy, designed to provide sexual gratification to the user. They should not however be confused with anatomically precise dolls, these are dolls that are used during interviews with children who have been subjected to sexual abuse or are used to aid sex education.
A Sex Doll has a single task, to provide sexual enjoyment to the user in the form of simulated sex acts. Sex dolls may come in the form of a complete body or just body parts such as the pelvic region or face. Typically female sex dolls are anatomically correct to the extent that they will feature three accessible orifices for the user. Anal entry for anal sex, vaginal entry and an open mouth for oral pleasures.
History of Sex Dolls
The earliest known use of Sex dolls dates back to Spanish sailing ships, frequently these ships would carry a "dame de voyage" which quite simply was a female doll made from sewn clothes and used by the sailors on board. It is however unclear whether this doll was accessible to all members of the crew or higher ranking staff only. One thing is sure and that’s the inherent hygiene concerns and that this early doll could not have been particularly comfortable to use!
This use was developed further during the 1930’s by both Japanese and German fleets in an attempt to offer some sexual relief to men service on board their respective ships.
The first doll marketed as a sex doll for men was developed in the mid 50’s and was known as the Bild Lilli doll, ironically this doll is thought to have played a part in the construction of the Barbie Doll for girls.
Prior to 1982 it was illegal to import sex dolls into the UK due to restrictions on the importation of "obscene or indecent" items arriving from Europe. In 1982 a company called Conegate attempted to import a consignment of inflatable sex dolls from West Germany. Due to the fact that these dolls when inflated became life-size replicas of a female body complete with 3 orifices they were deemed as indecent and initially seized by customs and excise.
After an initial hearing which upheld the seizure conegate appealed to the High Court claiming the seizure contravened articles 30 and 36 or the Treaty of Rome and successfully overturned the earlier ruling. This set a precedent and now importation rules are for more relaxed for sex related products.
Types of Sex Dolls
Sex dolls vary hugely in price, inline with the variation in price there is a progressive variation in accuracy. Less expensive dolls whilst functional tend to have very basic features and are constructed from welded vinyl. Midrange dolls are made from one piece seamless latex and have more realistic mannequin style heads with hair and plastic or glass eyes.
Most sex dolls come in the default missionary stance however there are a number of dolls available that offer different positions such as the Doggie Diva doll. Male sex dolls are also available and typically feature an attached Dildo. Female Dolls come in all shapes and sizes designed to satisfy the variety of tastes users have. The anime love dolls are based on the Japanese anime characters, the big bazooka doll caters for those that prefer large breasted women, charming Constance for those that have a preference for voluptuous black women, Porky Paulina for those that prefer bigger women. There are also a number of dolls available that are based on popular porn stars. Examples of these porn star dolls include the Jill Kelly Doll, Chasey Lain Doll and the Tera Patrick doll.
Cleaning your Sex Doll.
Sex dolls require far less care and attention than the average human being. Perhaps this fact alone is one of their best features however you still need to ensure that you keep your sex doll clean. Before first use and after each usage thoroughly clean your doll using antibacterial soap and water.
Are Sex Dolls bad?
Of course not, why would they be? the fact of the matter is that each month there are 100′000’s of searches for the phrase "sex dolls" and related phrases. In the same way that dildo’s imitate male genitalia sex dolls offer a simulated experience to those not in a relationship, those whose lifestyles don’t currently permit a relationship and those that want to introduce sex dolls into their relationship. In fact just this year Henrik Christensen of the European Robotics Research Network told the Sunday times that in five years time people would be having sex with functional robots.
Introducing Adult Sex Toys Into Your Relationship
Introducing adult sex toys into your relationship needn’t be embarrassing or uncomfortable for you or your partner. In this article we’ll examine the correct approach for the introduction of sex toys that will ultimately result in a better happier more fulfilling sex life.
The facts are simple, the maintenance of a fulfilling sex life is essential for the long term happiness of any couple. Old clichés such as "if it’s not happening in the bedroom, its not happening at all" couldn’t be more accurate. An unfulfilling sex life will ultimately lead to frustration and tension between the couple that then frequently spirals out of control resulting in a total breakdown of the sexual relationship. The worst case scenario is that either or both members of the relationship seek sexual gratification elsewhere. Far from ideal.
Adult sex toys offer a method by which a couple can enrich and enhance their sex lives without wandering outside of their existing relationship. By employing adult sex toys they not only enhance their own experience of sex but that of their partner resulting in a far happier relationship for both.
So what’s the correct approach?
Communication is essential in any relationship and when tackling the introduction of adult sex toys communication is particularly important. First and foremost it’s essential that you first discuss yours and your partner’s boundaries. Couple using sex toys for the first time may feel intimidated. As such it’s advisable that your first experiences with adult sex toys should not involve items with names like "the Kong"!
Typically couple will wish to start will smaller adult toys that can give pleasure to both parties. Therefore when building up your confidence with sex toys we’d first suggest using smaller egg type vibrators that can be used for clitoral stimulation or alternatively vibrating penis rings. Both varieties offer satisfaction to both parties without placing either party in a situation where they may feel intimidated and threatened.
As yours and your partners confidence grows with your new sex toys you can start to explore your fantasies and express this with larger more advanced sex toys. It’s all about breaking down those barriers; the idea is to gradually work yourself into a situation where you can use any sex toy that your mind desires without your partner feeling uncomfortable or inadequate. It’s essential to understand that sex toys are an accessory to sex when used in a relationship and not an alternative.
Whilst using your new adult sex toys the first few times keep the communication channels open, ask your partner if what you’re doing is working for them. Keep doing this until you are confident that the sex toy is being used to its full potential. Couples that have never used vibrators can be overwhelmed by sensations that are new to them so you may have to avoid the most sensitive areas initially. In time however you’ll wonder how you ever coped without them!
The important thing to remember is that adult sex toys are designed to enhance your enjoyment of sex. They should be fun, something to be enjoyed with your partner. The taboo’s that may have surrounded these toys historically have been broken down over the years with adult sex toys now available on the High Street. Boots have recently announced that they are considering stocking their stores with basic sex toys. The fact is adult sex toys are here to stay, they continue to improve and including them in your bedroom activities will only bring positives to your relationship.
The Rise and Rise of Rabbit Vibrators
The 19th century was a dark depressing period in the history of female sexuality. Female sexuality was in fact treated as some form of hysteria, the treatment of which was alarmingly named hysterical paroxysm. This quite simply involved vaginal massage by hand by a member of the medical profession. What a truly tiresome job that must have been but I guess someone had to do it!
The workload was soon reduced by the invention of a steam driven vibration machine that was used by the medical profession to treat the hysteria amongst women that must have been rife at the time. This device however was not easily portable and was later replaced by an electro mechanical device designed and conceived by a British doctor named Joseph Mortimer in 1883.
The electric vibrator was born.
In the following years women started to buy themselves vibrators, purely for medical purposes of course. Advertisements could be found in women’s publications dating back to as early as 1910. These devices were mail order only and typically carried slogans such as "prevent illness, experience the wonders of vibration".
In the decades that followed vibrators evolved, designs improved. They became smaller, quieter and more powerful and were recognised as devices designed and used for sexual gratification. 1000’s of different vibrators have been produced but few have enjoyed the huge success of Rabbit vibrators. They are now a mainstream device; women of all walks of life use and enjoy them. Openly discussing the fun they have with their rabbit. A phenomenon that was later featured on TV’s hugely successful sex and the city in which one of the characters develops an addiction to her own rabbit vibrator.
WHAT ARE RABBIT VIBRATORS?
Rabbit Vibrators are a type of vibrating sex toy. Identifiable by the vibrator unit being shaped like a rabbit complete with two vibrating ears and nose. Historically there was a single variant, a vibrating dildo named the Jack Rabbit. However due to the incredible success of this product there are now a large range of products in different shapes and sizes but all retain the rabbit styled vibrator.
WHY ARE RABBIT VIBRATORS SO POPULAR?
Vibrating dildos have been available for many years; traditional vibrating dildos consisted of a shaft with a vibrator mounted at the base. When in use the entire shaft vibrated which whilst pleasurable didn’t target any specific region. If the user wanted to use the vibrator for clitoral stimulation she would need to remove the vibrator from the vagina and target the clitoris manually.
The designers of the original Rabbit vibrator applied common sense to the design of vibrating dildos. They mounted the vibrator unit on the side of the shaft so that the vibrator directly targeted the clitoris whilst the unit was inserted into the vagina. However the real stroke of genius lay in the design of the vibrator unit itself, it may look cute but the format is incredibly effective. The rabbit ears vibrate against the clitoral hood, ideal for particularly sensitive women and for those wanting more direct stimulation the harder rabbit’s nose can be used directly on the clitoris.
THE SUPER RABBIT VIBRATORS
Nowadays there are a huge number of variants; the "super" varieties typically feature a dozen speeds and Pre-set programs. With these devices the user really can lie back and let her rabbit do the work. It can however be argued that the fundamentals of the device remain the same. Cheaper varieties provide 99% of the pleasure at a fraction of the cost.
CONCLUSION
This family of adult toys has single handedly destroyed some of the taboo’s that surround adult toys even today. Women aren’t ashamed of their rabbit vibrators; they no longer need to make an excuse to own such a device. They do so simply because they enjoy using them. The rabbit vibrator is her to stay!










